A Place for Every Child: Why Inclusion Matters in the Church

March 20, 2025
Alex Welker

When I think about why special needs ministry is so important, I don’t just think about statistics or best practices (although those are certainly things I can list and talk about)—I think about real families. I think about Miss Nikki, a mother at my parents’ church who has a daughter with autism. At first, she was just looking for a place where her daughter would be welcomed. But when she realized there wasn’t a system in place to support kids like hers, she stayed—week after week, serving, adapting, and eventually serving as the church’s Kids Director to make sure her daughter and others like her had a place in the church.

Honestly, I owe a lot of my passion for Kids’ ministry to Miss Nikki. Miss Nikki took me under her wing at church and trusted me to do a lot as a volunteer, and she also introduced me to her daughter. I began working with her daughter helping provide some respite care, and I saw firsthand how much Miss Nikki gave of herself every single day as a parent. Parents of kids with special needs carry a weight that most of us will never fully understand. And often, church—meant to be a place of rest and renewal—can feel like just another place where their child doesn’t quite fit. That should never be the case.

The Church’s Role in Supporting Families

When a church makes space for children with unique needs, it does more than just provide accommodations—it tells families, “You belong here.” For many parents of children with disabilities, the simple act of attending church can feel overwhelming. Will my child be disruptive? Will they have what they need? Will they be included, or just tolerated?

The truth is, inclusion doesn’t happen by accident. It happens when a church decides that every child matters, not just in words, but in action. It happens when we commit to making sure kids with different abilities have the support they need to thrive, worship, and grow in faith—just like every other child.

Our Vision for Special Needs Ministry

That’s why we’ve created a sensory room—a quiet, calming space designed to give children a short break when they need it. This isn’t a separate space where kids stay all service long; it’s a tool that helps them engage more fully, giving them a moment to regulate before rejoining their group.

We also offer buddies—dedicated volunteers who serve alongside kids who need extra support. These buddies provide encouragement, reassurance, and individualized care, ensuring that every child has the chance to participate in Kids Ministry in a way that works for them. Buddies also connect with parents to see how we as a church can best partner with them as they raise and disciple their child.

How You Can Help

This ministry is built on the hearts of volunteers who believe that every child should have a place in the church. If that’s you, we’d love for you to serve with us!

  • Buddies serve every week, walking alongside a child to support their engagement in the service.
  • Hosts serve every other week in the sensory room, offering kids a safe space when they need a break.

Ideally, we are looking for volunteers with some sort of background in special education. But honestly- even if you don’t have experience working with kids with special needs, what matters most is your willingness to love and support these children and their families. If you have a heart for inclusion, we are able to equip you with everything else you need.

Join Us in Building a Church Where Every Child Belongs

Imagine a church where every child is seen, valued, and included. Where parents can worship knowing their child is not just cared for, but celebrated. Where kids of all abilities grow in faith together.

That’s the kind of church we want to be. And with your help, we can make it a reality.

If you’re interested in serving or learning more, visit our landing page to get involved. Let’s build something beautiful together. 

About The Author

Alex Welker

Alex is Browncroft’s Kids Coordinator. With a background in Elementary and Special Education, she is passionate about creating a welcoming space where kids can connect with each other and with Jesus. Alex loves building relationships and helping people discover and use their gifts. When she’s not crafting or enjoying a comforting cup of chai, she cherishes quality time with friends and family.

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