We live in a consumerist culture. That is a culture that is built around giving people what they want. The problem is in most areas what we want and what we need is not the same thing. This is especially true in our relationship with God and with His church. The only church that will change your life is the one that challenges you to grow, rather than affirm you as you are. This can be uncomfortable but it is the only pathway to the life we were designed by God to live.